Hindering the Household?

We all see ourselves being successful, whether success to you is being at home with the children or running your own company. We all see ourselves living out our dreams. Has your dreams ever caused a riff in your home? Do you feel that your spouse or family in general just doesn't support you? I've been there before and it's a hard pill to swallow when you feel this way. The best thing you can do is talk about, ask them why don't they support you, what's the issue with you pursuing your dream.
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When I started my photography business I got the impression that my husband supported me but not fully. I mean he bought my equipment and all but when it came down to actually photographing people i began to feel he really didn't want me to step outside the home and do anything else other than cook, clean and take care of him and the children. I mean let's be honest, half of us SAHMs didn't voluntarily choose this career lol. Things in life happen and we do what's better for the family. Eventually the thoughts of what you could be doing pops into your head and you begin to wonder what could you be doing besides sitting at home all the time. And that's OK, you should begin to explore those thoughts. At some point you have to think about your happiness and how to get there!
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If your partner loves you like they say they do then they'll get over whatever it is holding them back from accepting the fact that you want more outta life than dirty clothes, cooking food and dealing with them all day lol. It's  a New day so that means fresh start, write down what you want and make a plan. Once you've made a plan begin to work on reaching the goals and creating a life you want for yourself! Good luck and always always ALWAYS BE A BLESSING!


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