Re-visiting your plan for your life

Back in January I made a post about having goals and not letting yours go just because you are a mom. Click Here to see that post. But I wanted to re-visit the importance of having goals even though you are a mom. We tend to forget about ourselves and later become filled with resentment and anger. I know because I've been there before with my husband and I felt bad because the person I should of been mad at was myself. Even though there were some things I had to sacrifice,  I could of still made plans and followed through with them. So now is the time where you pick yourself up and make plans to follow through with. Image result for plans First things first is find out what you want to do, what sets the fire of passion inside of you. Once you have that begin to make a plan on how you will get there. what classes you need to take or what job you need to look into. There's nothing wrong with starting over just don't keep pushing it off. Life is way too short to be so unhappy with your life and what's NOT going on with it. We make life entirely too hard, harder than it has to be. Then want to blame others for the lack of satisfaction we have. Now is not the time to blame anyone, instead light a fire up under your butt and get moving! Or you'll find yourself miserable and resenting everything and everyone. You'll become bitter and jealous of everyone around you.  From here on out tell yourself how important you are and what you want out of life is just as important as what you're doing for your family!I promise you IT GETS BETTER from here on out, you just have to make sure you put in the work to get there!

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