Unmask the TRUE you!

We all deal with life our own ways and on our own accords, but why though? Why take yourself through something through things you don't have to go through? It's because people in our lives play a role and with that you begin to play a role as well. NOW is the time we unmask ourselves to reveal who we really are and what we really are! Stop letting people who have no real foundation, no real  place in your life determine how you act and what you do. STOP putting up with the stupidity that others place on you. Image result for unmask People reflect their mess onto others and we being ignorant just think it's all us and we have the problems but in reality that person does. How long will you put up with someone else issues covering you? How long will you wear this mask of confusion, hurt , anger and pain? My answer: until you come to the conclusion that you are truly tired and ready for change. Some of us deal with things just to have someone around. But you're hurting yourself more than you're helping yourself. Nothings wrong with positioning yourself in front of any and everybody. At times like these you have to so you can get a clearer view of who and what you are and what is really important. What I don't get is why do we think it's OK to even deal with the petty stupid things we deal with. Many reasons behind that is because we're emulating what we saw growing up and sometimes that's not good at all! As a child we don't know what our parents really go through because they only like to show us the bright rainbow instead of showing us the rain! They see it as protecting us, but sometimes that can hinder us in ways that later hurt us. Today is the time for self help, there's nothing wrong with seeking help to better who you are!Image result for help  We are only human and I said that to say this we cannot always save ourselves by ourselves and that's OK! Once you realize that this will open many of doors for you to stretch out and step up! BREAK OUT OF THIS ZONE AND UNMASK YOU!

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