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*****This specific post is for my Moms who are in committed relationships and have been for a couple years now!


Image result for mom with goals    So you're a mom and have a partner/spouse etc. You've placed yourself on the back of the life bus because everyone else's needs came before yours. Now and you're wondering what's next? Is that you right now? Well I myself have been there too, I was so hurt because like any other person I had dreams and goals I wanted to pursue them BUT everyone else came before me. Have no fear if you really want to follow your dreams by all means go ahead. Now it's not going to be easy but at the end of the day if that's what you want it'll be worth it. Think about how much it'll make you feel better doing things you're very passionate about. I know for me I feel my purpose is to help those in need. That's why I birthed this blog and my YouTube videos. Of course things aren't moving as fast as I would like but they are moving, so I'm keeping my eye on the prize! And that's what you wanna do, you want to push forward and keep your focus on the most important thing........ YOUR GOALS! I know you may be disappointed because you never thought you'd let your life take this type of turn, but hey when you decided to get married  and have children you chose a different route for things in your own life. Why do MOMS have to take the loss? My exact question, I wonder that a lot. Seems like women ALWAYS have to deal with putting themselves last it sucks but we are equipped to deal with these types of things. Hard to believe but it's true, we carry a certain amount of strength for certain things in life. Something I did to push dreams was a vision board. May seem so cliche but it works. I had certain goals I wanted to meet before or by the end of 2016. Out of 8 goals I met 5! I'm very proud of the goals I have accomplished. I know I haven't completed them all BUT I will not bash myself for it.  I'm going to celebrate what I have accomplished. That's what you have to do mamas, you have to put yourself at the top of the list now. It's OK to do so. Yes you'll feel so guilty but push through it, don't you feel you deserve complete and utter happiness and fulfillment? YES, YES you do. So do it and do it with your head held high! Image result for proud mom

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