It's what I do!



  Some people may feel their number one goal is to have a family and a successful career. That's awesome but sometimes it doesn't always work out that way.Take me for instance; I became a mom at a very delicate age (my early twenties). From there I went to college and a little later got married. Normally it's the other way around; college, marriage and than children. Some people say its' OK to not do it in the order but that's honestly sending our younger generation the wrong message. Not to mention it's super hard when you do it backwards trust me I know! But as I sit here and type all the things that are running through my mind, a smile graces my face because through it all I made it and now I'm in (what I feel) a successful career. A WIFE,MOM,PROFESSIONAL PHOTOGRAPHER AND NOW BLOGGER! I know some of you are wondering "How in the world do you call that a successful career?" I say that because at first it was the most hated thing in my life until I grasped the reality that right now it's what I do. And I am very good at it, better than I thought I'd ever be lol! I mean I never wanted children let alone marriage, I feel it's what GOD called for my life so now I'm going to put my blood sweat and tears into it. Now I'm not saying it won't be hard and I'm not saying you won't wanna break down, but if you trust the process everything will work out! One thing you have to remember is DO NOT COMPARE YOUR LIFE TO ANYONE ELSE'S! I can promise you someone out there wants the exact life you have so cherish all the moments and take the good with the bad, happy with the sad! On a daily basis I get those comments like "I don't know how you do it", etc. Honey listen, I don't know how I do it either some days! I do know GOD yes GOD has been with me every step of the way and he continues to show himself mighty in  my life! I will continue to hold on to his everlasting words and keep the faith! After all my Husband may be the head of the household but I'm the head in so many other areas and without me this ship would not stay afloat! What I have Can not be traded! I have the opportunity to mold and shape the mind of the next generation! I'm raising up successful individuals, So i don't take that lightly! And neither should you!

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