You are perfect!

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      I'm sorry for the misleading title but honey you are NOT perfect and even though everyone looks for you to be, YOU have to remember you aren't. We as moms have to remember we can only be and do so much and when some things go lacking it's actually OK. If you have a full household as I do than you know or you're in the process of realizing you can't be everywhere at once and get everything done how the rest of the house would love for you to. We get so beat down and criticize ourselves so badly for not being all that we can be. I mean you are human right? I know I am, so I can't do the things that require me to be everywhere or do things that all need to be done at once. That's why we have to set schedules for ourselves. WE have to, not someone else. Many of us find ourselves envious of those who have  what we consider it to be a little "easier". Truth be told they probably have it worse than we do but won't admit it or want what we have. Remember we only have a certain amount of time in each day, use your time wisely. If you are that busy create a schedule for yourself so you can TRY and get things done in a timely manner. I know we see articles of how these celebrity moms get the job done, false advertisement at it's best! They first have a few more coins then some of us so they can hire people to take their children at their beck and call.   Image result for perfect mom  Some of them don't even have to wake up at 2 a.m. when their kid is sick to nurture and care for them. As I'm writing this my youngest boy wakes up from his nap, so I have to type and try to soothe him. I dream of the day where I can call nanny Margeaux to get him for me. Till than I will tend to him and complete this post. No he may not want to sit in front of this computer but he will until I'm done lol. You see that moms we rock lol! When you're feeling overwhelmed STOP. BREATH. And tell yourself "I'm only one person and I can only do so much at once." Say a little mantra is need be or a prayer, whatever you have to to calm yourself down, do it fast and do it now!

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